a piece of quiet for taste? no?

it shouldnt be so had to get people to understand you can not be used by them continuously? or is it? i mean seriously i want for one day be abled to say to a person im not going out today and they say oh thats ok i understand enjoy your day...not turn around and give me the guilt trip because i wont run them around and give all their friends rides as well. today i am staying home because for 3 days i was in the car way too much for others, nothing for myself. i told my neighbor who i would consider a friend when sh basically was trying to tell me i was going out that i wasnt going anywhere, she turns around and says well thanks for your help ill just take the kids and walk or ride bikes to walmart to get what i need lets face it i bette get used to it since im never getting another car again. then sends me another text asking if she could borrow the bike i have in my shed. i didnt reply to either of them. she is just ignorant and im not having any part of it. i mean damn im 35 years old and may not have much left in my life for material things but at least i dont need to depend on people who i plan to use way too much and think $5 is going to cover the gas. she says i need a ride if i give you $5 can you take me? ive been stupid for way too long, but the other day i got over it and said enoughs enough already. she had me driving all over and didnt offer me money when she stopped to get cigarettes she said when we get kalvin he will give you money, i never got it and when i asked about it i was told no i said ill give it to you tomorrow when i get my check. it was a monday she gets her check on wednesdays. i know what i heard because i recorded what she said.  she is watching my other friend cherils cats well was one escaped over a week ago and is now back to where it originally came from and the other one since then she has bitched about over and over i have offered to take it and she would all of a sudden change her mind and say it was ok she could keep the cat, today she sent me a bitchy text talking about the cat has to go today because it was breaking vases in the house broke this and that. she said she was going to toss the cat out because its not like cheril wants the cat anyways. omgosh i need to let it go, i seriously need a job so i can stop taking care of other peoples problems. i think ill go call around and find out about job applications i have filled out. yall have an interesting day or night...